I keep my relationship to basic bitches surface level at best. Often times I have found that the shrapnel of their poor decision making skills is not something that I want to be hit with, or spend my time cleaning up.
I do not believe this chaos is a conscious choice, but rather a lack of self awareness, (unless they are a sociopath).
No one wants to be basic right? But the truth is, that at some point in our lives (usually when we are younger) we all are.
Basic Bitches gossip. They cheat themselves and others out of a positive experience by focusing solely on themselves, as though they are entitled to everything they ever want with out consequence.
They raise their voice when they walk into a room to pull attention in their direction. They insert themselves mindlessly into situations that they have no business in. They ride the coat tails of others looking for a free ride and when the names they tend to drop no longer suit them, they stop dropping them. They try to fuck your partners, steal your jobs, and take what you have worked hard as fck for. They lack boundaries, respect, and team mentality.
Women stand strong, they unite, they communicate, they do their best. Women are full of integrity, aware of the impact they have FIRST and foremost on themselves, and then, on the people around them.
They will inspire you towards progress, not about body image, but about that good life where you love yourself and you are happy. Women impact the people around them positively. They change the world.
Though I believe this is what WE, as women strive for, I do not necessarily believe that we live this all the time. It more seems that as we grow up the time we spend being basic lessens as we grow.
I believe we all aspire to be WOMEN, full of integrity and strong within ourselves, for ourselves.